In Memorial to Chris Tobey
Writing about Chris is painful yet I know no better way to honor him than with a blog. He was the most gifted writer I have ever known – not because his word choices were witty, because he wrote without editing his heart. His words always carried his gentle, loving, and very smart spirit. SO, writing anything about Chris, I feel inadequate to do him justice.
He was always ahead of his time with thought, vision, coupled with an incredible acceptance of others. In the 15 years he was my devoted friend I can not recall a single time I felt judged, and I gave him plenty of material. He was the true definition of a gentleman. He has shaped my life in every way.
Chris, I miss you. “onward and upward”
Chris is remembered forever on this website devoted to his memory. christobey.com